luni, 19 martie 2012


Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts. ~Charles Dickens, Great Expectations, 1860

When feelings just float inside of you and when you feel an excruciating pain inside of your heart, then it is the time when your entire body will react to it. It is something just as natural as smiling only quite the opposite of it.
I always considered it a weakness. Because i had enough moments when i needed to cry in public, but my education didn't allow me, i ended up feeling even worse when i was all alone in my room. I recently learned though, that crying can be a sign of how strong someone really is. It is a sign that i shouldn't care about what people say. It is just a natural feeling and we've all been there at least once or twice in our lives.
What is so bad about it to begin with? Maybe just like Kurt Vonnegut said, we should prefer smiling above crying since there is less cleaning to do afterwards.
Since i realized what a feeling this is, i began to wonder: why would others dare judge? It is not like life is pink and above all, even God is crying! Have you been outside the last time it rained? That was the sky releasing its emotions! Silver drops bigger or smaller stand for every feeling. have you ever felt like the weather outside is the mirror of your feelings? That is because Nature is resonating with you!
What keeps us apart from robots or any other entity with no soul is...just the soul. That is what makes us different! We are all equal under the same sky, but if we would all be the same then world would be the most boring place.
I am not saying that we should all become one, or that we should accept everything, but basic feelings are in all of us.
What would make me special if i release my feelings when i feel like? Well i would be special because most of the ones around me are hiding it. I am who i am and i learn to change. Just because there are some people out there who forgot that we all start as a seed and end in the same ground, it doesn't mean that i will consider myself inferior or less. it just means that they went astray from their road.
In life being unique is what makes us stand out from the crowd. It is what gives us color in a black and white world full of a large mass of Homo Sapiens.
Be yourselves and if someone won't like you the way you are, then remind to the others that they can look somewhere else !



Dedicated to Mária!
Be strong and cherish who you are because you live for yourself!


It is small things that make it special!

It is as important as the rain water for trees and as beautiful as a sakura bloom in spring!
A relationship with a person that can care about you is unique. Nowadays dating is a fashion and dumping is a system. People tend to forget about what love really means. They also forget how to love and how to be part of a relationship which is not based on interest, money or properties.
The best love is the one where you feel butterflies in your stomach even after years with the guy!
i love to receive a roses bouquet or chocolate candies and i love the kisses which come with such a surprise.
It is not rocket science to know how to cherish and appreciate the other. It is simply sharing a feeling, making that person feel important and above all make him/her feel unique in your life.
It is said that nothing happens just randomly, so if the two of you met the only thing you have to do is to learn to accept each-other in your lives.
People are different and people tend to impose their own ways on the other, but the ideal way is to create a harmony between the two of you!
Old school couples are not lost! They are still there. People who are feeling the same connection for years. People who complete each-other even though their love was no a fist sight one.
It can happen that you have to work for the relationship, maybe against all the odds and you have to make it happen.
it will always be the small things that make it special. I think it is important to show love at any time.
Here is a black thought: what if something happens with the world and you never had the time to share you love? You would never forgive yourself for not showing what you feel.
Changing pairs is not always the best solution to find the perfect relationship. There is no such a thing. People are different, they come from other educations and backgrounds and in such an internationalized world like ours, everything is possible.
I think that trying your best together with a person is the best option. Don't forget that small things make it count!