duminică, 14 decembrie 2008

How does the friendship smells?


It's good to have friends. They say "Go through your phone book, call people and ask them to drive you to the airport. The ones who will drive you are your true friends. The rest aren't bad people; they're just acquaintances"...I never tried that but it seems like a good idea. You can also make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
Maybe we try to hard to seem the best and to attract people around us like a flower does with the honey bees. Trying to understand people might have much better effect on your life then just talking and not doing anything. People are not interested in words,all they care about is what you do. Help your friends when they need someone. Else people will just ignore you...and don't wait for any invitation from them. You just have to go and ask.The simple fact that you are interested is good.
Also don't try to hide the truth.A good friend can tell you what is the matter with you in a minute. He may not seem such a good friend after telling.But still you have to try. As we all know,truth hurts,but it's better then hiding it.I'm the kind of person that always tells what's wrong,and i usually see that people don't like that. They tend to ignore me after that or they just get upset on me saying i'm not a good friend.But why shouldn't i tell to my friend:"Hey,this pants don't fit you!" then to let it go like that on the street where everyone can see that? I still say what i think,even if that is not always appreciated.
But this friendship thing has its own bad parts. People always change like the color of a fruit and it happens that sometimes you can't even recognize a person you thought you knew. Have no friends not equal to yourself is also something we should do. People always tend to compare themselves with the others around. I don't think we should do that. Each of us has his way in life. We all were born with a meaning.Others become directors, presidents, owners of big businesses,and the others stay in the normal world as simple employers. So what? We all all part of the same world,that seems to ruin sometimes.
My mother used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met yet. And maybe she's right...Maybe world is full of friends,and their smell is everywhere around us. Maybe i smell as a friend too. After all,how does the friendship smells?


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